About 100 people were witness to a most unusual wedding at the weekend.
The bride was 61 years old and the groom was an eight-year-old boy!
Both families were present at the wedding of Sanele Masilela (8.) and
Helen Shabangu (61) and the bride's husband and her five children were
also at the wedding in Zimbabwe.
The boy's aunt, Patience Masilela (46), explained why the wedding took place.
She said: "The boy was named after his late grandfather who never had a
white wedding, so the ancestors told the boy to get married and he
chose Helen to be his bride. The family took his desire to get married
very seriously. They paid for the bride in March last year and spent a
lot on the wedding because they believed it was what the ancestors
wanted."
It is a ritual. We are just playing now, but it is a sign that he will get married one day."
The young groom said: "I told my mother that I wanted to get married
because I really did want to. I chose her because I love her and I'm
happy that I married her – but I will go to school and study hard. When
I'm older I will marry a lady my own age."
The bride's long-time husband, Alfred Shabangu (65), said that he never
had a problem with her marrying the boy because he too knew that it was
what the ancestors wanted. My kids and I are happy. We don't have any
problems with it," he said.
However, some community members said they were shocked.
One woman said: "How can a family go this far for the ancestors? It
shows that people do take messages from the ancestors seriously."
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